Amber – a parent always has a right to make decisions regarding their children (up to the point they’re not outright neglecting or abusing them, naturally). My beef is with self-styled ‘experts’ who push a very specific parenting agenda while claiming the science is on their side. Well, I’ve looked at the science, and it doesn’t say what they claim it does.

The primary purpose of the blog is to collect resources (what I write and links to other sources) for use in online discussions and debates. Hence its name.

Plus, you can find experts and scientists who disagree. Not on every issue, but on many issues. How do you know who to trust? You don’t always. And so you’re left to rely on your own judgment. I think it’s dangerous to completely disregard your instincts and judgment in parenting.

I take scientific evidence into account, which is why my children are vaccinated. It’s also why I breastfeed and use car seats. I also consider my own intuition, which is why I use slings that Consumer Reports says I shouldn’t. Or bring my babies into my bed to nurse so that we can all get some sleep. My kids, my call.

Scary truths!